Personally, I don't see much special about the 360 over the PS3. The wii offers more diversity in terms of exclusives from the PS3 and goes well with either the 360 or PS3. Now if you get all 3 consoles that is ideal. For only two, I suggest at least one of them be a Wii.
Don't worry about the RROD. It's not really any more common than problems with the PS3 or Wii now, and with the 3 year warranty for RROD there it should not be a significant factor for your consideration.
My 360 is used as a DVD player more often than to play video games. I definitely play more video games on the Wii than the 360, but to be fair I had my wii longer and so my collections for the Wii is larger.








