Your list loses all credibility once u mention best RPG. Demon's Souls is by far the best RPG of the year and a very strong contender for me as GOTY!
With out a doubt, Demon's Souls is one of the best RPG's ever made.
Other than this, tho, your list is good.
Playing and finishing games first>>>>>>>>>>Then talking!
Opinions are subjective and just like moods, can change.
TOP 12: Deus Ex, Shadow Man, Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, Shin Megami Tensei: Nocturn, Castlevania: Lords of Shadow, Metroid Prime, Zelda (series), Uncharted (series), FF Tactics, Persona (series), Demons Souls, Vagrant Story.
MOST WANTED: Deus Ex: Human Revolution, The Last Guardian, ICO/Shadow OTC HD