highwaystar101 said:
Kasz216 said:
highwaystar101 said:
Kasz216 said:
I dunno.
I'm in love... and I don't ever want kids so.. if it's a trick to procreate it's a pretty crappy trick. |
Ok that's the second post I've read in a matter of seconds from you saying that you don't want kids... Have you become allergic to them or something? lol
Anyway, I don't want kids with my girlfriend now, quite frankly kids annoy the living hell out of me. But I'm also not in the position to want to have kids, nowhere near. I've only been with my Girlfriend for two years and I'm doing a joint masters to PhD which means I'm not really going to be ready, financially and paternally, for four more years at least... And maybe then some. And she's a Doctor, which makes me think that I would end up as a house husband anyway if we were to have kids, which I would never want to do, so it would be impractical for us to have kids.
But I also know that when I'm 30 or something I will think that it will be time for me to settle down and have kids, even though right now I don't see myself ever wanting to have kids.
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Become?
No. I've just never liked kids honsetly. There cool for about 5 minutes then they get on my nerves.
I was one of the nicest, well mannered, not make your parents worry type of kids out there and I would of got on my damn neves. My parents don't seem to regret it, but i can't really figure out why.
Plus they're expensive and I don't really see the logic behind having them.
Either there is a god and there is no need for me to worry about my genetic line.
Or there isn't a god and my genetic line is going to eventually be wiped out anyway. Whether it be when I die or well past when I die, what will it matter?
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I've never liked kids either, in fact I hate kids in general, they piss me off. I don't want kids
But I think the truth is that there becomes a point in people lives when they realise want kids, even though they don't realise it now. A few years of torment from them seems much more justified when you're older. Also, using the expense issue is kind of depressing don't you think? I don't think that I could use a cost as a reason not to have my own family. It's a priceless experience.
It's not a genetic thing either imo. I don't think I could give a toss about ever passing on my genes personally. I think I would happily adopt when I'm ready to be honest. I think the true value lies in raising a family and sharing a journey together (trying not to sound soppy lol).
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My Aunt and Uncle still never want kids.
Expense is really just an excuse to be honset... With even a mediocre salary i'd make way more money then i'd spend how i was raised.
Really though i'd rather donate the money it'd take raising a kid to charity.
I just don't feel i'm ever going to share the journey of raising a child honestly. I understand the coolness of "creating" something and shaping it and watching what happens but the truth is, i'm more interested in following that pursuit in other avenues such as writing, programming and the like.
