Dear lord, apart from the level headed guys, this thread is either filled with the hate mongering types or the sexually insecure, unsure and frustrated. Blissful isn't it?
Anyway, after reading through most of it, I'd say you are taking things in a good direction, Wessle. You're taking things calmly and getting to know him. That would have been my advice had I caught this thread earlier.
I will add, however, that sweet and nice as he might be behaving towards you, I'm still convinced he's mostly interested in sex. Not that there is anything wrong with it, if he is frontal about it and you agree to the terms. Surely, time will tel.
Have fun and enjoy the thrills, safely, whichever the outcome.