Any gay dating advice?

[SimonSaysFYou]

angrypoolman said:

SimonSaysFYou said:

angrypoolman said:

tedsteriscool said:

SimonSaysFYou said:

WessleWoggle said:
I plan to ask lots of questions.

sounds like a relatively good starter conversation. when the topic of relationships comes up, make sure you explicitely ask him what he is looking for. last person i was with i inadvertently led on and it got worse and worse until we cut off all contact with each other. generally, if i'm going to get with someone, i like to go on at least 3 or 4 dates before anything sexaul happens, that way i have a valid enough opinion of them before i choose to (or not for that matter) to get physically involved with them.

This is a great strategy. My guy proposed that we'd wait at least 3 days together before we were intimate. It helps you bond with the other person based off of personality first, body second. You don't want your reltionship revolved around sex (or do you?).

3 days? Seriously? Would that really be enough time?

well, it really depends on what you feel comfortable with. i say generally because i'd say MOST people follow that as a rule of thumb too.

So just because most people follow that as a rule of thumb, it's right?

not right for everyone, no, but it was just a mere suggestion based on my experience and what others have told me.