highwaystar101 said:
How so? It was just a statement saying I think one or two posters overcompensating... I also didn't say everybody and I certainly didn't mean itt as an insult. Let me tell you a story. When I was at school there was a bully called Barry, he used to pick on a lot of the more "feminine" boys and his favorite insult was calling people gay and using it as an very negative and derogatory insult, as well as beating them. He was persistant with picking on these kids and calling them gay as an insult. I saw him again for the first time in about five years couple of months back, guess what, he's gay. All that overcompensation and gay bashing was just hiding what he really felt. Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone, but you can tell when someone is overcompensating. |
But I think you and I know that your fisrt statment applied to me, and my argument contradicts what you're saying. If I was insecure or overcompensating wouldn't I come off with something like 'I dislike gays becuase they are gay?'
Thats not what I'm saying, and you're first statement is also extremely over-used.







