Everything in life is an option (as long as you can afford it). You just don't want the PS3 for personal reasons. Anyway...I think it is a bit stupid on your behalf to be asking what the best value Blu Ray Player is on this website. Most people here own a Blu Ray player in the form of a PS3.
Asking this question is also stupid. If I were you, I would research it on the internet, then go into some stores and ask the guys working there.