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dtewi said:
WessleWoggle said:
Akvod said:
WessleWoggle said:
tedsteriscool said:
Craan said:
This is ridiculous being gay is a choice, at some point in everyones life they choose whether
to be attracted to men or women.

Im sorry, but being gay isn't a choice. Why would people choose a lifestyle that millions upon millions of haters bash on a daily basis? You can't help who you're physically attracted to...


Being gay is a choice for us bisexuals. I could choose to be gay or straight.


??? So you're only gay during sex? Or if you see a hot guy you can decide not to feel sexually attracted? And you can't find a woman and man to be sexy at the same time?


If I see a hot guy and I'm in a self induced altered mental state, yes I can not feel sexually attracted. I can control my feelings, I can feel sexually attracted to bricks if I wanted too.

But if I'm just being me and not messing around with my own brain chem. through self hypnosis, I couldn't help being attracted to a hot guy.

That isn't changing your sexual orientation, that is just self-control. You don't "choose" not to be attracted to him, you just control your feelings.

True. Since my underlying sexual orientation is still there under my self control, I'm not really choosing my orientation.

But, if I choose to excersize self control over long periods of time, I could loose my originial personality and change my default orientation possibly.