| Legend11 said: I think you guys are right but I don't want to put her on the spot or get in her face so I might just go sometime as usual and leave a few hints. If she's not interested it's still good because it'll hopefully allow me to move on because this is getting to be pretty bad for me :( I just hate doing that when she has a boyfriend because I never want anyone doing that to a girlfriend of mine, I'd think the guy was a scumbag :( |
You can't lay a few hints, bud. You have to make it clear. Just as us guys don't have a freakin clue what women are thinking half the time, they don't know what we are, either. They are so buys trying to read between the lines that sometimes, even when the obvious truth is right in front of them, they mistake it for something else. It's just human nature. The ONLY way to get it out of your system and stop it from eating away at you is to let her know.
I'm a fairly firm believer that it is hard for guys and girls to truly just be friends. Casual friends, yes. Really good friends? No... If the friendship is that close, in my opinion, there is much more there... Just my .02.








