Commiserations man, just make sure you stay strong and don't let it f**k you and your family up too bad. I know someone who was outgoing and had no fear but after having a similar thing happen to himself he changed into a recluse and constantly fearful of people. Stay strong
p.s get a damn good security system fitted
nintendo and sega fan since i was old enough to hold a game controller.
note: my games collection on my profile is only 20ish% complete, i've got a boatload of 360,saturn and dreamcast games to add and a few ps3 games, thanks :)