Guys and girls just look at sex differently for the most part. Its largely a phenomenon of evolution. Girls have a different type of biochemistry and react to situations differently than men do. Sex is also pretty different physically for males and females in terms of who is doing what.
Not to mention, as Rubang pointed out earlier, girls have a lot more to lose from sex gone wrong as they can get pregnant. So their brain tells them to look at it as a more personal kind of attachment. For a guy, at least from an evolutionary standpoint, the goal is to spread as much seed around as possible, so many guys don't look at it from the same perspective. What males and females look for in sex is fundamentally different.
We had two bags of grass, seventy-five pellets of mescaline, five sheets of high-powered blotter acid, a salt shaker half full of cocaine, a whole galaxy of multi-colored uppers, downers, screamers, laughers…Also a quart of tequila, a quart of rum, a case of beer, a pint of raw ether and two dozen amyls. The only thing that really worried me was the ether. There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a man in the depths of an ether binge. –Raoul Duke
It is hard to shed anything but crocodile tears over White House speechwriter Patrick Buchanan's tragic analysis of the Nixon debacle. "It's like Sisyphus," he said. "We rolled the rock all the way up the mountain...and it rolled right back down on us...." Neither Sisyphus nor the commander of the Light Brigade nor Pat Buchanan had the time or any real inclination to question what they were doing...a martyr, to the bitter end, to a "flawed" cause and a narrow, atavistic concept of conservative politics that has done more damage to itself and the country in less than six years than its liberal enemies could have done in two or three decades. -Hunter S. Thompson
