| TheRealMafoo said: As long as you keep blaming other for your situation, you will always be lonely. You are where you are because of you. You will only get out of it because of you. Stop making up reasons why the woman you want don't like you, and the ones that would like you, you don't want. Change your attitude towards woman, and your life will be better for it. |
Well said.
I think this is usually true. Maybe there are some people who get themselves into their own heads so deeply that they can't come out again w/o some sort of outside/professional help... but for most people, I think it's all about taking responsibility for yourself and the quality of your own life.
And about the first video (I haven't watched the second explanation or the... uh... metaphorical snowstorm), what I heard really sounded to me like a bunch of thinly-veiled misogyny, basically saying that women are wrong for pursuing love and romance the way that they choose (oh no, wait, they don't even know what love is... that's right...).
Women are human, just like men--you want something from them (love, sex, friendship, whatever)? Then you have to offer something they'll want in return. For most women worth being with, this really just involves being a good person and being sincere and open and available. I'm well aware of the "nice guy" syndrome, but 1) nice guys are often chasing after loser women who, of course, don't want them back, and 2) sometimes guys think that they're "nice" when actually they're just desperate; just because you've finished last, that doesn't make you a nice guy.
