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mrstickball said:
I don't get this.

Both sides can conflict with the ideals you put forward. What if self improvement does away with partaking in retarded sex/drugs/pleasure? What if you conform to your peers, and they partake in really stupid activities?

I suspect that the question has more to do with hedonism versus asceticism, and that the OP established such a dichotomy because he fancies himself a non-comformist.