| Signalstar said: Go to the club on a night she is there and make sure she sees you but make sure you hang around some other girls and completely ignore her. She will come over and inquire why you are ignoring her and you play it innocent. She will ask to finish you off for the rest of the night but say you have no money left. Judge her reaction and you pretty much have you answer. If she stays and talks for a while there is still hope. If she frowns and walks away to another customer your screwed. |
Rather than that, I'd recommend making sure she's there, but pretending that you just didn't see her.
Don't risk lookin like a prick even if it is just a friendly game of playing hard-to-get. You could probably find a place to just chill and make it look like you're waiting specifically for her to see if you end up catching her attention. Still though, keep in mind that playin little mind games like these can be dangerous. She could also be playing hard to get, but you might not know it.
You probably really should just let her know that you like her. Seriously. If you guys do end up dating, all this asking-advice-on-forums stuff could end up having a negative effect on the relationship. Open communication is great for every couple. When two people feel completely comfortable letting eachother know how they feel, it's great for the both of them.
Just be honest. Next time you see her, tell her how you're feeling. You like her. Forget all the advice you got in this thread. Put her to the test. Will she respect you after you finally let her know how you feel? If she doesn't, then you probably wouldn't want her in the long run anyways. I've had this line throw at me in the past and while I didn't like hearing it at the time, I knew it was true: There's plenty of women out there. You'll find the one eventually. Stop taking so long to tell what's up. Tell her you like her, but let her know that you'd at least like to get to know her before you guys possibly take it to the next level.
