So I'm trying to woo an exotic dancer into a serious relationship

[J-Favs]

TheRealMafoo said:

J-Favs said:

Dogs Rule said:
There are sound words of advice in your post, Rocketpig. Unfortunetly, much of the things you say not to mention have been. Not always by me, but by my friends. She is 23 to answer your question to my 27. It has always been my intention to throw a curve ball by not trying to make a pass at her on the first date. That is still my MO.

Anyways...

So we to there tonight. Have a great time. I ask her about many things but get her favorite restaurant out of her and offer to take her next week. I used Starcrafts "your answer won't affect our business relationship" to which she says that is so nice. No "yes" but not a "no " either.

I said to her make sure you recognize me next time I call you.

She does her floor shows and blows me a kiss after each of her exits, which is sweet of her.

Whatever happens, I'll keep you posted on a respectful level.

Thats awesome and that also shows she seems genuinely interested.

 

Genuinely interested in what? Maintaining his businesses relationship maybe.

I have yet to hear anything that makes me think she is interested in you. (or anything that tells me she is not)

Oh, and as for the pass, throw one, just not one that says you want to sleep with her. I would at least try and kiss her, if the date is going well.

Great first dates that end with the man showing no affection at all, usually don't leave a good first impression. You end up setting a president that when you try and break just feels awkward.

 

 Generally interested in him, just like he is generally interested in her for who she is and not for what she does.