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starcraft said:
Why not simply ask? It seems you get along well enough with her that you could be honest.

Make it clear you wont stop coming and paying money so that she doesnt feel she needs to say yes to keep your business.

"Hey there. Look I might have completely missed something, or I may be completely naive. But I was wondering if you might like to date me properly? No money, no business, just you and me. Obviously if the answer is no thats cool, but I think you're great and I just thought I would ask."

 

That's actually brilliant advice. All of it. I'll run it by my friends, but I might just roll with it. It clears everything up for her, makes her feel secure, that there are no strings attachedand most of all, no risks. I love it! Thank you. :)