My biggest gripe with 360 is probably the shitty hardware. From noise of the crappy fans, crappy d-pad, shoddy hardware and noisy DVD drive. Other than that it's a great console.
I don't find battery thing to be an issue. I think it's great that MS provide solution for batter charging or you can just used standard AA batteries (both rechargeable kind or alkaline). Nintendo offer no solution and those Wii mote eat batteries like there's no tomorrow. Sixaxis will have to be send in when the internal better pack need replacing. (Mine barely used already not holding charge).
All your other complains are just nitpicking. Blu-ray for 360? Why? Stand alone are better for that. I don't know what you complain about as far as Live since most game allow someone to play as guest on your console from Halo to even most arcade game. I mean really if you have to bring in stuff like 360 slim to make your top 10 list then yeah..
