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akuma587 on 20 February 2009
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madskillz said:
akuma587 said:
You guys are assuming that just because you don't "know" any different that you will automatically be satisfied regardless of what that person has to offer sexually.

That is quite an assumption...especially considering people have access to sex vicariously in so many different shapes and sizes these days. We are exposed to sex on a regular and habitual basis, and the expectations society creates for us of what sex "should be" are as influential or possibly MORE influential than our own experiences.

The attitude that just because you don't know anything else that you will be satisfied overlooks this reality.

But, I do know both sides. After getting busy the first few times with a woman who wasn't my girlfriend, it was only strokes. It felt good but that's it. Matter of fact, I was nailin' her and not even there. Matter of fact, a few days after hitting her, some cat she met at a club nailed her. I wasn't even faded - as long as I could slide in her later on. I didn't, though.

I have seen the lives of folks from different walks and they all have the same result. I have cousins that decided to just get busy. You know what happened? They are men in their late 30s, early 40s used up. They are still searching for love.

You know, maybe I have it wrong, Akuma. I can only base what I know off of limited information and the like, but I will say, from the vast majority of folks I know, including a few of my peeps married more than twice, the data comes back the same without a doubt.

Sex isn't meant to be shared. You may buck the trend, but you will be in a clear minority.

 

I'm not devaluing what you have to say, I am just saying that if people assume that they will be happy with their partner sexually simply because they have never had sex with anyone else is a false assumption.

I'm not criticizing people for remaining abstinent, I am just criticizing a poor rationalization for remaining abstinent.

 



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