bardicverse on 27 January 2009
| ChronotriggerJM said: As long as there's no diseases in the process (disease check!) I have no problem's what so ever. Being in love is so much more than a trust and sex issue to me, and unless the act was done out of malice, there's no point in not forgiving them, it wasn't intentionally harmful (just curiosity on her end), and you know what, the fact that she came clean to me (if she did) only embraces the fact that she knows where her man really is. I guess at the end of the day, sex is sex, and it will only ever be meaningful with the person you love. And as long as my baby comes home to lay on my chest before passing out, I can sleep soundly :P |
I hear that man. A lot of people don't realize there's a big difference between carnal desire and spiritual. What you share with your significant other is a spiritual bond, of course combined with carnal desire. When they sleep with someone else, its mostly a carnal desire, but if they come back to you and want to be with you, the spiritual bond goes unchanged. If the spiritual bond is changed or broken, that usually means that a breakup is happening. Carnal desires are part of our animialistic nature, where spiritual is far beyond that, and a much more lasting thing. Once a couple can understand the differences between carnal and spiritual desire, it makes the relationship a lot stronger (plus a lot more interesting and/or kinkier lol)
