Pristine20 said:
lolita said:
Pristine20 said:
lolita said:
Pristine20 said:
Please. The divorce rate in the US 50% in the US. In other countries in the world it's lower for various reasons. Usually it's because marriages are based on "arrangements" between families.
Here in the US, people marry because of "love", why don't they last long? It is said that women even cheat more often that men but they don't tell you that one.
You can cry sexism all you want but it all boils down to opinion. In fact, I sometimes get sick and tired of hearing that word but I don't want to start a full rant now as that would take too much time.
If you ask me, more men are heartbroken by women because women tend to leave men more than the other way around. i guess they forgot about the love then. Don't judge me, live your life and enjoy what you think is "love" lol.
It all boils down to this: this is a rating based on what each individual thinks of women. I personally have no need for them except to empty my organs which in the event I do it myself, I have no need for them at all. The "useful" women are those that don't think of themselves as "women" but instead as "soldiers", "nurses", "teachers", etc.
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I don't live in the US and don't give a damn... Marriage doesn't work because they don't know real love is. They confuse it with liking someone. Real love would make you do anything for that person no matter what. Even if people who love each other get into a fight, they will get over it and compromise.
And people cheat because they get selfish and greedy. They're just thinking of their little selves. NOT EVERYONE is like that. I'm not and I know other girls who aren't. I know guys who wouldn't cheat. They don't say it because they want to seem nice but because they really do want a stable relationship and someone who will really love them and stay by their side for the rest of their life.
With all that said, it doesn't make it right for you to treat us like we're just sex objects. I'M A HUMAN like you and I deserve respect and you're being really degrading towards us. Who do you think you are? Why are you so hostile? It's like if you were spitting on us. That's just seriously messed up. You need some help.
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So if I put a gun to your head, you'll take the bullet for your "real love"? It looks like you might have read too many of those cinderella stories when you were young. The real world doesn't work like that.
You may be right that people cheat because they're selfish and greedy but in that case, at least 90% of humans are selfish and greedy (because the fact that you would cheat if presented with the opportunity makes you no different from the rest). You know guys and girls who wouldn't cheat? If you ask me those guys "who wouldn't cheat" probably can't get any on a normal day if they tried their hardest so where does the opportunity arise from? They want someone to stick by them forever because they're tired of the dating game. Those who are good at it won't have it any other way.
Whoever said you're not human? You're very much human. Don't take facts as hostility. I'm more frank than most people and it's hard to admit but I speak the truth. I just call things like I see them. Do some more observation of the world around you. It's hard to see beyond the social conditioning and fairytales.
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I haven't read too many Cinderella stories like you say I'm just not being a negative pessimist and I do believe in others. I just really do believe there is good in this world and you're the one who's affraid to try because you're affraid to get hurt. You sound like the kind of person who had bad stuff relationships happen to. Listen. I know many people who are still in couple and they weren't arranged marriages. They never cheated on each other and they're still in love and together. That's no fantasy it's just people who decided to believe in good and that they were able to really love and treat each other with respect.
Oh and I won't accept what you say as facts because you're no one to decide what's facts. You just don't want to try and you don't want to believe that love life can be nice. How would your mom react if she saw what kind of monstruosity you're saying? I believe that person who said you would sell your mom for a PS3. Seriously, please get some help.
Not everyone is selfish and greedy... I said that only in the case of cheating and I'm very well aware of it. But you seem to IGNORE the people who DON'T cheat. You don't take them into the picture because you seem to refuse to believe a nice healthy and loyal relationship doesn't exist and is only in fairytales. Well guess what? Then according to you I'm in a fairytale. ;)
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Well, I've been called a "pessimist" before and I certainly believe in a few people. Of course thre's always the couple thats the exception but what I iterated before is the "norm". How would you know for sure that they never cheated on each other? Do you realize that many people who cheat never get caught? Sticking together in a marriage for one reason or the other =/= believing in good. You're taking things waaay out of context.
I didn't decide what "facts" are. These are based on statistics and personal observations to affirm them. I simply don't believe love exists. Infatuation does but it goes away after a while. If people "loved" each other based on your definition, they can't just do the 180 degree turn that tends to happen to most "lovers" when smething goes wrong.
I will reiterate again. Most men don't cheat because they CAN'T. Perhaps that is hard for you to undrestand. For most men with girlfriends/wives, it was very hard to even get a "constant" lay in the first place so why would they risk being kicked back to the playing field? As for women (pretty ones, hell even some not-so-pretty ones), all it takes is to open their legs and any desperate male out there would jump in no questions asked. The only thing keeping women in "check" is the fear of being branded "sluts" by society. You're no fairytale. You may just be an exception but I don't know you so I can't even say for sure. It's obvious that you're trying to paint yourself a pretty picture. Me, I just call it like I see it.
If you don't believe me, go out and take a poll; ask 100 randomly selected guys the last time they had sex, I can bet $10,000 that you'll get an average of 4+ months. Do the same for girls and you'll get an average of maybe 3 weeks. Is this BS too?
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