bardicverse on 21 January 2009
@bursche - yeah, the maturity level can play a big part, but sometimes hard to gage, as I've known older girls who are less mature than my current gf, who is several years younger. Sometimes even 30 yr old women dont know what they want.
You need to sit her down and tell her to choose her old life or a new one, but she cant have both. She either needs to bury her ex, or be stuck forever. If you let her sit on the fence, you won't have her entire attention. If she can't do that, then you're better off grabbing a couple cases of beer, having some down time with some buddies, and regrouping yourself.
