| Words Of Wisdom said: Long distance = almost certainly doomed to failure. |
I kinda agree here. Here's my list
NYC to Australia
NYC to Canada
NYC to Texas - got married, lasted 2 years, annulled
Currently NJ to Ohio - much shorter period of time, visits every few weeks - **driving distance!** (very important!)
Constant visits help make the time apart easier, especially when things like work get in between. Also, any LD relationship that lasts over a year is put in dangerous situations. Someone should move by a year out.
Also, if both people involved are close with their family, this makes moving away harder. When one person is sick of where they live, its easier to make plans happen quicker.
Lastly - be unique/weird. Be so strange, but in a way the other person likes, that they know that finding someone like you would be next to impossible. Don't be the stereotypical guy, they can find him at any bar.
