tarheel91 on 14 December 2008
| madskillz said: Dang folks. Unless you are a star of some type, and unless the girl is just flirty as the devil, the direct approach - it NO WORK. Unless you are flowing with uber confidence and mad game, you have to understand your limits and work around them. Personally, you should have waited and called her over and said 'What's the deal. All I wanted to know is - can we get busy or just be friends?' I'd PM D21Lewis for player advice. |
Yeah, I was about to say, I know very few girls who'd just say yes right away, and they aren't exactly the type of girl I'd want to date. You have to actually get to know them and get on more familiar terms. D21's got it down. A common interest is essential, even if you're not really into it that much. Find more comfortable ways for them to communicate with you. AIM or FB or even texting can be much easier to do because they won't give it much thought. Then, you can progress until, suddenly, you're talking to them every day and that date sounds much more reasonable.
