Imagine you're going about your everyday life. You're thinking about cooking dinner, and feeding your dog. All of a sudden, a random person jumps out of the bushes, tells you that, even though they never spoke to you before, they are in love with you, and that they are ready to make it work. Personally, I would spray you with mace, and run away while yelling "RAPE!
In the future, don't do that. It doesn't work.
What you have to do is get creative. Introduce yourself to her without trying to appear desperate. Example: I was in the mall when I saw a cute girl sitting on the floor folding clothes to put on a shelf. I sat down without saying a word, and started folding clothes too. When she looked at me, I said "What?" and continued folding clothes. Got her phone number, too.
Know your target. Find out what you have in common, and exploit the hell out of it! I can't guarantee a love connection, but I can damn sure promise you a first date. BE CREATIVE. You need to stand out from everybody else. Good looks and a nice pair of jeans don't cut it anymore.
