Hawkeye said:
Flow said:
Oh, you shy people got a serious problem...
You know you have to "lose the shyness and go and talk to a girl".
I'll use a nice metaphor here, it's like you live in the jungle and there's a freaking big and evil tiger surrounding you and threatening to kill you in you little cave at any moment.
But you fear this tiger, yes! And by fearing the tiger i mean being shy to talk to a woman, fearing rejection.
But you know you've got to lose this fear... and what do you do?
This is the point where most of you think you've got to grab a random boulder and jump in this tiger like you have a S on your chest just because you've lost your fear. And damn, that's wrong. You may probably kill the tiger, but you will be hanging for your life. And probably the tiger will eat you alive.
What you gotta do is craft your weapons, study the tiger, train your fighting skills, and then face the tiger when you know what you are doing.
So, be aware that the direct approach (talking about women now, but that also apply on tigers and most big animals) will probably let you down. You need to make the female like you first, get friendly and intimate with her, tease her, and when you know you're there, go for that mouth, you'll know when she wants it.
THIS is what you need to stop fearing to do. Now drop that damn boulder |
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or you can realize women are not tigeresses and that you can easily talk to them. Just figure out something they like and talk about it. Women tend to like talking about people, clothes, feelings, and events that are social. Shy/ non social girls won't have this interest.
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Goddamn people, it's not like i'm telling you to fight women. Plus, this:
"Do you know why i compared the woman to a tiger? It's not because the woman is actually a threat.
It's because platonically loving a woman kills you inside. Doing nothing about this love kills you inside, you need to know if you have a chance with her and go for it or that it's going nowhere and move on and forget her, or else the pain can be unbearable."
(If you've been there, you know what i'm talking about)
And, of course, trying to joke a little, is this a crime?
And if you really read it, you get the point. People think that confidence means getting women, but just because you are confident that if you talk to the woman and gave her a wink she will drag you to a bed, doesn't mean it will happen. You've got to play it nice and slow.
