Oh, you shy people got a serious problem...
You know you have to "lose the shyness and go and talk to a girl".
I'll use a nice metaphor here, it's like you live in the jungle and there's a freaking big and evil tiger surrounding you and threatening to kill you in you little cave at any moment.
But you fear this tiger, yes! And by fearing the tiger i mean being shy to talk to a woman, fearing rejection.
But you know you've got to lose this fear... and what do you do?
This is the point where most of you think you've got to grab a random boulder and jump in this tiger like you have a S on your chest just because you've lost your fear. And damn, that's wrong. You may probably kill the tiger, but you will be hanging for your life. And probably the tiger will eat you alive.
What you gotta do is craft your weapons, study the tiger, train your fighting skills, and then face the tiger when you know what you are doing.
So, be aware that the direct approach (talking about women now, but that also apply on tigers and most big animals) will probably let you down. You need to make the female like you first, get friendly and intimate with her, tease her, and when you know you're there, go for that mouth, you'll know when she wants it.
THIS is what you need to stop fearing to do. Now drop that damn boulder
Flow -"The important is to pwn other ppl"
