Live in Indiana? Give the gift of Abortion!

[Comrade Tovya]

Moongoddess256 said:
man you guys persist and I can't resist the temptation of continuing.

A case of where abortion might have been the best thing for a child(and at the same time showing how abortion can be abused, so it satisfies both sides):

Once upon a time there was this slut. She wanted to get a husband. So she goes and sleeps with a guy and gets knocked up. She says MARRY ME! He says HELL NO. She gets an abortion. She sleeps with another guy and gets knocked up. She says MARRY ME! He says HELL NO. She gets another abortion. She sleeps with a third guy, this one is catholic and she gets knocked up. She says MARRY ME! He says well I guess I kinda have to now. She keeps it. He decides he can't stand her after a while and leaves her anyways. She goes out and parties it up and leaves the baby alone. When she is around she beats it when it cries. Now that the kid is grown up, hes deaf in one ear from his beatings as a baby. Hes really messed up in the head, gets arrested frequently, does every drug under the sun, is a dealer, gets in frequent car accidents gets in fights etc. Nothing about his life is right, and he is the definition of a bad and evil person.

In the above story the problem is not that Abortion was available to her nor is it that she got knocked up. Its that she is a BAD PERSON. Maybe if we could prevent BAD PEOPLE from happening in the first place by maybe cutting some slack to allow people to not be born into horrible situations that will only warp their minds and cause the cycle to repeat. And maybe if the cycle is broken then people wont feel compelled to get needless abortions like that anymore.

I'm a good person who doesn't live for instant gratification. But I was raised reasonably well.

 

I only agree with it in one case... rape.  I still think in a perfect world a completely closed adoption is best, but I understand the premise of abortion in such cases really.

Outside of that, either own up to the accident, and keep the kid or live with your mistake for 9-mos. and give the kid away... everybody knows, especially in the USA, there are just too many people who can't have kids, and want kids, but they wait in line for a kid to become available for years and years sometimes.

Like I said, that's what happened to me.  I'm one of 10 kids, and 8 of us were adopted.  My mom wants more, but she just waits around until another child becomes available.

So what I am saying is, you shouldn't force an unwanting parent to be a parent.  That's bad for the child.  But there are other options... and they actually are pretty easy.  In most cases, if you find a family early (which is really easy) they will even pay for the mother's maternal expenses while she is pregnant.

I am just thankful everyday that it didn't happen to me... all the things I would have missed.  Like being married and my 3 children now, that's what life is all about.