I agree with your statement. I have long said the 360 controller with offset analogs is almost entirely unnatural. The ps3 controller however is a bit too small. 360 is a bit too large, bad button layout (for me), and too heavy. I do like the overall feel of the 360 controllers shape, just want it a tad smaller.
Wouldnt it be nice if the makers made different sized controlelrs for different sized hands?!?!?!?!?