| ctk495 said: If anyone have any good advide that can help me feel free to post it I might not answer it since I have to leave.Did I forget to mention I've never have a girlfriend? By the way thank's for everyone that has give me so advice so far. |
Sounds like the girl is not the kind of girl who would be interested in you. She seems like part of the more "popular" crowd, so odds are she is fairly superficial. Its not that you can't go after attractive girls, its just hard to go after attractive popular girls. I know from experience. Plus, they usually aren't that interesting anyways. Popularity is something that kind of disappears after high school, or at least turns into something far more realistic. But people were actually pretty laid back in my high school.
What makes my life interesting is art. Hang out with people who are really into music, movies, literature, etc. They are generally the most interesting people I know. And when you get into that kind of stuff, it really does change you into a better and more interesting person. Music is a great place to start. Really get into the music you like and go out and look for new kinds of music. For me, really getting into music actually increased my confidence a lot, as it kind of helped me discover who I was around your age. Plus knowing about art gives you interesting things to talk about.
Getting a girlfriend is a good idea, but you gotta be realistic, especially on your first girlfriend. I am not saying you have to settle for just anyone, but its like hunting an adult gazelle versus a baby gazelle. Your odds are just a lot better going after weaker prey.
But basing your happiness around girls is generally a bad idea. If you are only happy when you are with someone else, what does that say about you? I mean who could be interested in you if you don't even think that highly of yourself?
Chicks like guys who are confident. That does not mean cocky, it means confident, someone who knows who they are and someone who isn't afraid of things. You probably don't want to be with a girl who likes cockiness, as she is probably an idiot who likes being abused by people.
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