Is drinking from a straw feminine?

[The Ghost of RubangB]

dtewi said:

The Ghost of RubangB said:
Some of the manliest men in the world suck penises. You guys know that right? Tell them they're feminine and they'll break you in half. Seriously, some of the Queer guys in Hollywood and San Francisco look like Mike Haggar. They could drink your blood from a straw after giving you a spinning piledriver.

Someone seems defensive.

Calm down. Don't get all pissed when someone makes a joke.

Or is it just jokes about homosexuals that bother you

I get pissed when people make jokes comparing women and homosexuals, because those jokes are part of a hateful phallocentric worldview that says to penetrate with your genitals is powerful and good and to be respected, and to be penetrated by genitals is weak, passive, feminine, and to be made fun of.  It's views like this that make it legal for a man to bone another man in the ass, but the man he boned is now gay and gets arrested.  Many cultures still treat people like that.  Being on the receiving end is the bad thing and deserves the punishment, because it is somehow horrible and filthy to be on the receiving end, or to "play the woman's role," because seriously, fuck women.  All homophobia comes from a hate for women, and it's not funny.