@mrstickball : I think you've got it right with the idea that you should really get to know the person you're with before you have sex but I struggle with the "not until marriage" part.
Sex is an important part of a relationship and even if you are perfectly compatible on every other aspect on your relationship with someone it is possible that you don't match sexually (difference in sex drive, different turn on, etc...) If that's the case you're stuck in a marriage that is destined to fail.
So what I'm saying is that going around having sex with any random girl is not ideal but waiting until you're bound by law to someone before discovering how you "match" in bed ain't ideal either.
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