nordlead said:
Esmoreit said:
MrBubbles said: i think it is wrong. |
I think it's right, if done the right way and adequatly handled. getting spanked is usually more about the scare then it is about the pain itself. I always feared my fathers anger more then any spanking I got and that follow-up worked with me. Plus he always made up so i didn't fear him anymore, only my actions.
For instance, I recall when I was 6 or so and at some point I left the gate door open while playing though my parents said I should always lock it. The result: My dad's bike got stolen. Off course he was cross, I got a slap on my ass and send to my room. He later came in, explaining the situation etc, hugged me and from that point what I learned was: Dad good, dad love me, leaving gate door open = scary stuff happening. It worked brilliantly!
Plus, you know what generation was the first to not get spanked? The metrosexual generation. And for that I will beat the hardened chesthair out of my kid.
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very good answer and I agree (and yes I was spanked too), but what if you have a girl 
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Simple, slap 'm on the rear. Like someone mentioned below already the tigh works but well, rear is more about scaring then pain (buttocks are thicker then thighs.)
also surprised no one linked to maddox yet:
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat