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General - I caught my gf - View Post

Ok this depends on many factors. Is she bisexual? If so, dump her (or if u don't want to, u have to talk to her and really think it out). If she is straight, she could have been experimenting/having fun (I call this the "I think its cool to like girls" phase that many teens go thru) so u still need to talk to her. Did she see u? If she did, she could be avoiding ur phone calls, if not, don't jump to assumptions (unless u called her many times through out the day). If I were u, if I didn't want to dump her, I would start distancing my feelings ASAP as best as possible so that if she is avoiding u, u won't be hurt much. I have been in a similar situation (only 10x's worse) and I didn't distance myself and I paid the consequences.