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Aion said:
Yeah great life.


sarcasm?



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Do you live near the beach? If so...(it is summer in America right now....right?), take her to the beach. Fun times are always had at the beach, plus you get to see her in a bikini. Also...on a side note, start doing Push-Up and crunches. Having some muscular definition will have a positive impact...you don't want to look weaker and smaller than her. It definitely won't hurt your chances. It is a win-win situation. You can do some fun activities together on the beach (sand castle, dig a hole, bring a volleyball or something and have some fun...be creative), while still maintaining good verbal communication. Like I already said...if she has a lot of fun....she will want to hang around you again...because she knows you are a fun guy and can show her a good time.

If you don't live near the beach...may I suggest an aquatic centre. Once again...you get to see her in a bikini (which is always a plus)...plus you can have a lot of wet fun. Also....very easy to break the physical barrier. Best way is...before either of you are wet, splash her a bit. She will most likely splash you back. Run up to her and grab her and dunk her in the water (along with yourself of course)...a lot of fun. (Warning: this only works at your age...do not attempt this when you are older...unless of course you know she would like that) Also...friendly touches are very easy to do when you are chilling in water. You can't go wrong with that...it shows that you are a fun guy. Once again....push ups and crunches can only help you...so invest 20 minutes a day doing them.

Watching movies at your/her place is also good...BUT...parents are the big issue here. You can't get too comfy...so I would avoid it for now...wait until later. This step happens after you kiss her for the first time.

More to come later.

EDIT: I just realised that you live in Central America...therefore, no access to beach. BUT...the same suggestions apply if you go to a lake or something with water.



D_Boy has been round the block a few times, eh.

Good luck, Toastboy.



"Life is but a gentle death. Fate is but a sickness that results in extinction and in the midst of all the uncertainty, lies resolve."

Hmm ill think about the pool thing.... I live near a private pool only residents of our area can access so...



Oh yeah...and to answer your question from your original post...does she like you as more than a friend? At this point...it is hard to say. It can go either way. Depends on how you play it from now on...I will tell you one thing...she seems to enjoy spending time with you at the moment. Also...she rejected you a year ago. That doesn't matter at all. You were 13. Things have changed since then.

Remember...you are working toward kissing her. That's what will transport you from friend to more. If she kisses you at any point (on the mouth...not the cheek)...you have your answer. If not...you will have to put the effort in, and make sure it is the right time. You don't want to jump the gun and scare her off...wait until the perfect moment where you can tell that she wants it...and take a deep breath...and voila.

But...at the moment...that is not an issue. All you are doing now is trying to break the physical barrier.



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D_Boy said:
Oh yeah...and to answer your question from your original post...does she like you as more than a friend? At this point...it is hard to say. It can go either way. Depends on how you play it from now on...I will tell you one thing...she seems to enjoy spending time with you at the moment. Also...she rejected you a year ago. That doesn't matter at all. You were 13. Things have changed since then.

Remember...you are working toward kissing her. That's what will transport you from friend to more. If she kisses you at any point (on the mouth...not the cheek)...you have your answer. If not...you will have to put the effort in, and make sure it is the right time. You don't want to jump the gun and scare her off...wait until the perfect moment where you can tell that she wants it...and take a deep breath...and voila.

But...at the moment...that is not an issue. All you are doing now is trying to break the physical barrier.

hmmm gotcha, ill have to ease into it...btw guys ill update either later today or tomorrow stay tuned!



This thread is cool.

Why cant u just text her, like:
"I want u"



Slimebeast said:
This thread is cool.

Why cant u just text her, like:
"I want u"


cause thatll scare her away, trust me



Ok guys I edited OP



You know, you could have gotten the assignment from someone else instead of mkaing an ass of yourself.



Kimi wa ne tashika ni ano toki watashi no soba ni ita

Itsudatte itsudatte itsudatte

Sugu yoko de waratteita

Nakushitemo torimodosu kimi wo

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