1. The hunt is always better then the kill... except when she is the one.. you'll know when she is the one... but the thing with the cellphone is paranoid.. if she loves you.. and you love her.. you should trust her.. And it's normal to doubt love in an early stage..

2. Well I don't know your age.. but sex is a part of your love life.. and an important part.. at first.. but don't rush it if you don't wan't too.. when your older and more experienced you tend to have sex faster with girl.. like within hours.. >_> then sex is just a part of your love life... I dated my first gf for months before we did it for the first time..

3. Take her out.. show her around too people.. if she hides away constantly then you know there's trouble...

4. No you are not boring her.. and yes you are being paranoid..

5. take a chill pill! -edit- & always use protection!!

question for you: is this your first real relationship?

A: 1-5
-It seems like your pretty young. Who, in fact, is giving you pressure to sleep with her ?
because that bit threw me.
-If you sleep with her make sure you don't knock her up or catch something off her.
-NiKKoM is right, as you have more girlfriends you'll sleep with them more quickly. Im gay so its a bit different, so when i go out with a guy we are usually screwing within minutes, rather then hours :P
-I think she is probably texting another guy, and thinks your a paranoid weirdo.

^^.. How could i forget: always use protection!!

Geez, all that reading and you could have simply asked, "Should I have sex now?"

If you're doing it due to peer pressure, you're doing it wrong.

Remember, don't drink and park. Accident makes babies.

So it's a fling and your being paranoid.. makes me wonder what will happen if you get into a real relationship.. :)

Anyway... don't worry if it doesn't work out.. enjoy the time that you have with her.. you live and learn.. you live and learn... never regret anything that made you smile!