At NeoGAF there's a huge survey asking people if the new firmware caused consoles to stop functionaring.
Apart from a very small minority who experienced minor issues, nobody seems to have experienced the issues reported by especially the US media:
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=324089
NeoGaf membership is relatively hard to get to, so there are relatively few fake accounts. Here on VGChartz this may be a little differnet, but did anyone's PS3 actually stop functioning with the update?
My PS3 and those of my friends had no issues whatsoever.