Nope. Did send her an email on Monday, just because it had been about four days by then. No reply.

So she's either well out of contact (possible, it's a holiday), or she's deliberately ignoring me, in which case this is game over.

So all i can do is wait, either for a reply or for 8 days from now when i see her again (not to confront her or anything, of course, just to see what the reaction is).

Its not game over till the restraining order comes in.. Don't you think trashleg has turned down guys just for them to try again.. And again.. Giving Up so soon after a minor setback.. Sure maybe she was shipped of to an arranged marriage but she could have read over the request being busy.. And yes the email was too much but we can't stop your anxiousness.. So relax, we'll get a gameplan for you together when she gets back:

"hi how was your thanksgiving"

thats it.. 

indeed she should be flattered is exactly what any stalkers motives are

Oh yeah, she's definitely been on facebook, so i've been ignored :-/

ok time to focus on a next target then

So? It happend to us before... Stand Up and try again.. Unless she posted a thanksgiving dinner with her boysfriend family.. Anyway of you really really want that number: try to find one of her friends say: "hey i tried to call -name- but i think its the wrong number it ends with 321 right?" And the friend will probably say the complete number seeing that you already have the last few digits right. 

It's not like i'm going to be scared off or anything, she's just obvious not into me in that way for now. Just means i need to be all the more cautious, keep my eyes open for someone else, possibly.

Either way, seems like we're about done with this thread.

Thanks guys!

NO! F*ck NO! I'm 100% sure she doesn't know how she feels about you.. Geez man you took 2 months to get a coffee with her and you expect that she knows in 8 days what she wants to do with you? Maybe she is human like you and don't really know what to do? Maybe she's on the Elle forums asking for advice? Maybe she wants a few more coffees before to decide  to date you..

Love is not a 2 answer multiple choice question.. If you really like this girl, and i mean really like her, why in the world wouldn't you try again? Did she say no? Did she? Did she say no straight to you face? Or a you reading random signs from some internet rules and freaking facebook notifications? 

And your original plan was to sit closer to her in class.. Do you really think that would have helped? Being more cautious? Sure it never gonna hurt when they don't know you are there but its not gonna lead you anywhere.. 

If you're gonna go down.. Go down in blazing flames and ask her for waffles.. At least you get a yes or no answer

I'm not a "go down in flames" kind of guy. At least not usually. Although your words give me hope.

I'll see how she acts next Wednesday and play it by ear from there.

this is true. My ex told me that I was the first girl he dated who didn't routinely reject him, or make him work so hard. This was confusing to me, because I thought "so I was the first girl to actually like you as much as you like me, which in your head means I like you too much, which means I'm doing it wrong by not being a bitch?"

Guys complain about how being nice gets you nowhere. Well, being a girl with mutual interest in a guy seems to get you backwards. 

Khan, is your cat okay? </3