Horrorfest said:
Euphoria14 said: I think you were and this is why.
First off, you complain about how someone won't do this or that for you. Then you say that you can't do things when they want because of your conditions. This right away sounds like you expect everything to work your way, in what benefits you best.
Why do I think that? Simple. You want him to help you out and if he doesn't, you get pissed. Meanwhile, when he complains that you don't help out around the house and you state that it because you don't do things for nothing.
If you want help, then you better expect to give it too. People don't give you shit for free and then when they want help in return you ask for compensation.
You seem to have underlying issues and I think you need to find someone to help you. Now, I don't mean that to offend. It just seems you are way too full of aggression and if people don't do what you want in the manner you want them to then you get angry with them.
The world doesn't revolve around you. You live in that house. It is your job to help out around the house and around the yard and not just cleaning your own dishes.
If I were him (From the story I just read here), I wouldn't be happy with you either.
Him not fighting back is also not a sign of him being a pussy, but rather that he bitches in hopes that you will do something other than expect everyone else to do everything for you. Obviously this failed and you instead resulted to attacking him physically.
So yes, you were wrong. You were very wrong. |
You missed what I said. I said he broke his work and he did. He gave me his word that he would help me out and he lied to me and made false promises that he couldn't deliver. This has happened a few times.
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Do you work? Just curious.
I am going to assume this man works. I am going to also assume this man cooks and cleans around the house and does the heavy yardwork. I am going to assume he treats your mother well (As you do not make any case for him not doing so).
I am also going to assume that there are times where he could have done things, but because you wake up late he should shift his schedule around to accomodate you.
From your story (And this is YOUR story, which makes it worse), he doesn't sound like the problem.
When was the last time you mowed the lawn? How about rake the leaves? Shoveled the driveway of snow?
Just curious.
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