So neither the PS3 or 360 got a late port? Bioshock, Mass Effect, Deadly Premontion, Joe Danger, Braid, etc. say otherwise, and i dont recall anyone on the receiving end of those complaining, the opposite in fact or at worst indifference. Putting a good game on the system creates bad feelings now? They could have just not given the system anything. If their is a game coming out for a system you have its good and youve never played it, but choose NOT to play it because it came out on other systems beforehand, they that is YOUR loss, not Nintys or even SE. Which is ironic becasue that attitude will ensure that 3rd parties will be reluctant. 

most games on your list with exception of Bioshock were in some form tied to one platform in exclusive deal of some kind and even Bioshock was announced for PS3 half year after release on XBOX360 so its not certainly comparable situation,  the problem is they just released new game TR on 2 platform, why they spend resource and time to release 18 month old port on new platform (with no history for this franchise on Nitendo platforms)and not this new game? the answer is simple the game is destined to fail and this became excuse why not support platform in future.

In similar manner in alternate history PS3 get GTA IV in 2008 and few weeks after XBOX360 get announced port of Man Hunt 2 director's cut.

whatever deals they had is not relevant, im only talking about the reactions to said games being ported, they dont incite the reactions that seem to incite some Ninty fans. I never hear either of those camps spouting conspiracy theories. You can use that tired "putting games on systems to fail argument" all you want. Fact is their is no evidence to support that, unless you actually heard someone from SE say that, otherwise its just another conspiracy theory.  

Dont know why you keep bringing TR into this, their not even developed by the same damn team. I bet they were doing nothing right now, and SE said hey, knock this out for Wii U real quick. While the actual TR team was busting their butts just to get the game out on time, not wanting to have to stop to try to get a Wii U version done, at least not yet.

certainly you can't because the support for either Sony or MS platform is almost flawless, not so much in Nintendo case, its not conspiracy it's just observation, they're free to publicly declare what kind of support for WiiU they planing, so they started with port of year and half old game, i find this somewhat problematic or simply unfortunate, and ask what they try to achieve with this port.

TR is good example because is well know franchise with some history on Nintendo platforms at last on Wii with relative good sales (TRA 850k), so if someone wish to build on some foundation TR is good choice on the other hand Deus Ex is not it was never on any Nintendo platform and you perhaps known most early adopters are fans.

DX port was outsourced to external company, they probably can port anything

in case of exclusive deals no sane person can ask for porting exclusive content to 3rd party platform