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coolbeans said:

Whoa!  Alarm bells are going off, mainly due to the "principally different" part.  Sure, she isn't looking to sleep with you without said money but...how often ISN'T money the equation for voluntary transactions?  Whether she turns down doing that sort of work or not, she'd still have agency (unless a trafficking victim which is something else entirely).  That's worlds apart from the repulsive violation of another's body in regards to rape.

We're talking about sex here, not handing someone a burger through the drive-through window. Just making sure we're on the same page in terms of grasping the difference in mental-emotional weight.