The only things i agree on are on a full, console release and making battles fair. Battles can way too easy, with only certain gyms and the elite four being a challenge, since they usually have more/stronger pokemon.
Everything else sounds terrible. I see where you're going with this but i don't want pokemon to have a "real life" feel. The world of pokemon is a happy-go-lucky, blissfully ignorant and sometimes cliche world but i find that to be a strong point. I like the fantasy feel and lightheartedness of the franchise.
I'm sure there is a market for this type of take on pokemon but count me out.