Are Punishments Really Idealistic?

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I think Punishment works on a flawed bases, similar to how dictators rule through fear. By forcing someone into a position they do not care for or like, you supposedly divert them from doing that thing again. Yet if teenagers teach us anything, is the harder you suppress the stronger the rebellion. Yes, it seemingly will be under control for a while.....until it explodes in your face. Why do you think most preacher kids turn into drug addicts and whores? Too much control(which punishing is an act of control) always backfires.


The legal system is heavily flawed in that regard, where it uses jail as a deterrent from doing certain things. If you have ever watched Bill Maher, he brings up some great points. Why do we punish drug addicts with prison? They are obviously going through personal turmoil and need help and we......punish them? Why not get them proper counselling and help them better themselves so they can actually become a productive member of society. Nope, that is too logical and doesn't lead the gov't to billions of dollars every year....

Positive reinforcement has been stated to be the more effective method. Instead of telling a child not to do something, then when they ask the infamous "Why?" question your only retort is "Because I said so!" What you should do is carefully explain WHY things have to be in the way as you stated. Let this not detere the simple fact that humans learn via trial and error. We find it difficult to take things at another person's word unless they have a habit of being right. "Don't touch that stove Timmy. Why? because if you do its going to hurt really bad and you will be here crying........TSSSS! OW! See, I told you".


Now if that doesn't work after countless attempts..................... you might be dealing with a sociopath so punish away.