Also, imagine that you've bought a new video game. You've played the 14 week tutorial. In that tutorial, you learn how to REALLY drive a car. You learn how to fight. You learn how to shoot. You learn how to search, investigate, identify, etc.. It seems like it's going to be the best/most exciting sandbox game ever!
Then, when you start playing, there's no shooting. No fighting. Rarely any of the stuff that the tutorial stressed so much. Just sex mini-games, burglaries, and domestic disputes (and whenever someone dies, a bigger agency always takes over).
You're going to start looking for the "good stuff", right? The boss battles. The fights. The bad guys. The sexier mini-games. The respect. The glory.
That's what some of the guys (and I) went through. The key is to find balance. A lot of people don't have the mental tools to do that.
-and for the record, my cop days are pretty much done. Maybe once or twice a month. And instead of looking for action, I'm praying for a quiet day, when I work.










