This thread makes me feel old, fat and lazy. To some people I probably am, to others I'm not. I am happy though.
I'm somewhat of an introvert, no where near the point of being a shut-in though. In any case gaming hasn't made me so.
If it wasn't gaming fat, lazy, depressed people with addictive tendancies turned to it would be something else. Gaming doesn't make you depressed and it doesn't make you an addict, it doesn't make you lazy and it doesn't make you fat. First people need to address their depression, and/or the fact that they are addicts (take the gaming away and they'll move on to something else, possibly more personally destructive), addiction is often part of the reason behind depression. Sort those things out and gaming becomes part of life, not the focus of life, or the means by which you escape/avoid life.
As a parent I need to ensure my kids have a balanced life, that means making sure they spend a reasonable time on video games.
TBH I think forums like this, Facebook, myspace etc are as big a drain on people's time and activity than gaming these days. I've got family members who desperately beat a path to the nearest computer wherever they go just to be able to put what they've been doing in the last 5 minutes and where they are now on Facebook. And they then proceed to scoff at me for playing video games of an evening.
“The fundamental cause of the trouble is that in the modern world the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent are full of doubt.” - Bertrand Russell
"When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace."
Jimi Hendrix