How do you rate popularity once you're no longer in a school element?

hmm.. i dunno..

am wondering mah.self,,

  i’m guessing by how many people (non-family friends?) demand u’r time ??

hmm not sure if that'd work, only because in my case, I have several circles of friends based off my many hobbies, so its more me being a jack of all trades than everyone wanting to be with me haha

In my town, if I'm in a restaurant or a public event, people I barely know come up to me and tell me all about their family, friends, jobs, etc. That's cool when I'm working, but when I'm off, I don't really......like.....people. I just like flirting with girls! I try not to have ANY guy friends. Strangest thing, I went to Clemson (a college in South Carolina) a couple years ago. I was there to watch the pledges put on a "step show". This college is 500 miles away. I'll be damned! There was a guy there who came through the crowd who knew me from my town. Not so much now, but when I was 18 - mid 20's, people would always come up to me and ask me if I was famous. I was accused of being the black guy in "A Few Good Men" all of the time. Very random and crazy, I know.