I have to wonder if the homosexual couples are more interested in having equal rights or being treated the same. These are two complety different things.
In the US, men and women have equal rights. This means that any law that applies to a man also applies to a woman, and vise versa. There are also several laws in place attempting to give women the same changes in the workplace that men do. However, men and women are not treated the same, as they are different. Whether it is chemistry or nurturing, men and women behave differently and have different strengths and weaknesses. Therefore, men and women are treated differently and that is ok, since they are different.
Now to make my point. Heterosexual and Homosexual couples are different. Saying that they are the same is simply ignorance. I have nothing against giving homosexaul couples the same rights as heterosexual couples. However, saying homosexuals saying that they want "gay marriage" is wanting to be treated the same as others, and is more about acceptance than anything. After all, I always hear people upset that Florida banned "gay marriage" not upset because homosexual couples don't have the same rights. They are two different things.
Note my above posts where I state that "gay marriage" is an oxymoron. While we are at it, why don't we ban boiling ice. If we want "gay marriage", then we would have to change the literal definition of marriage first. As for those homosexual couples that are calling thier union "gay marriage", them calling it so does not make it fact. They are in a union.