1st of all, congratulations!!
base on your november due, i'd say the baby's in her sixth month. just additonal tips.
1. when your doctor or obgyn tells the wife to get some rest, make sure she gets some rest
2. if she's told to control her weight, make sure she does control her weight, this also holds true for her blood preasure.
3. if for some strange reason she's requried to get some bed rest, make sure she does get some bed rest. and no moveing around or doing anything, just resting.
i didnt go through what mesoteto went through coz they had to do an emergency c-section on my wife when she was on her 7th month. but 2 weeks prior to the operation, she had to be admited tue to high blood preasure. after 2 weeks in the hospital, we had the go signal to take her home.
i was gona pick her up after work but, just as i was settling down, i got a call from the hospital and that and emergancy c-section had to be performed....anyway to cut a long story short, my baby boy came out at only 1.3kg, thats barely 3 pounds. and he had to be kept in an incubator for 1 whole month. when i first saw him, i really did cry like a little sissy girl. 1st coz i had a son, 2nd coz they said he just had a little over 50% chance of surviving..
1 year forward, bad news, i'm still in deep shit due to debts coz it cost me an arm and a leg for my wifes hospitalization and the 1 month stay of my baby in the incubator. good news, my baby boys as health as can be and you wouldnt even think that he was born prematurely and that makes it all worth it.
