Okay, well let's back up to your 3 original problems ioi and see if we can resolve some of it.
1. 50 people on a forum is more than a friends group. ~10-15 I can handle, but anything more than that smacks of being competition to the main site and will inevitably take you guys away from posting on here. What happens when it gets to 100 or 200 or 500 members?
2. The minute all this stuff began about posting signatures on May the 8th, the secret codes, the hidden messages, you invaded vgchartz and made it my business. I don't understand it. If you genuinely want a private area where you can chat to others, why all this rubbish? Why not just go there and chat?
3. Upon then reading the threads in more detail I have become angry about what seems to be (and of course I could be wrong) the true purpose of the forum - see my quotes and my comments. I personally dislike people who think they are above others and I'm sorry but that is exactly how things come across to me. I'd love to be proven wrong.
#2 is fixed. They agreed the sigs were a bad idea, and won't be doing that again.
Let's work on problem #1 and #3. Would you agree to allow them to continue to exist if they closed down Section 8.1, and created a new forum with only 20 members, and no recruiting. Say they gave you an account to allow you to check and make sure nothing was being done to recruit. This could easily be argued as nothing but a close group of friends. Is that possible ioi?