No its offensive what you are doing. Think about the things you said. Think about the fact that I said I was sexually assaulted. Twice. And then this "zim" guy compared this to some girl grabbing his dick, when it really doesn't compare, at all. And then you jump in and get on the BUT MEN ARE RAPED TOO! bandwagon. When it never had anything to do with... anything.

You're ugly on the inside. Thats my point. Thats what my point was in the first place, about the majority of men. Self involved "macho" pricks who could never treat a woman like a human being. Talking down as if I was a child, as if I'm over reacting...

So, who else here likes thick chicks, say ay.


AAAAAAAY, son!

Except I'm not ugly on the inside. I have a girlfriend and am in a loving relationship with a girlfreind I treat as a human being... and have been for 5 years.

I understand you've been sexually assaulted twice. However that doesn't give you the right to claim that rape is a crime that is exclusivly caused by men and treat it as if it's part of a man's DNA to have some lurking rapist inside of them.

It's offensive to claim that women don't rape men. I'm not talking about groping or anything, i'm talking about actual rape.

Zim was not comparing his dick beign grabbed to your sexual assualt. He was comparing it to a comparative act to a woman. Like a man rubbing his hand against a womans ass, or say a man rubbing his hand on a womans crotch. It was a personal example to show that such things and more serious things that have happened to you do happen to men as well and that it's a bad idea to lump a group of people together because of bad expierneces you've had with it.

The way you argued against this was that women don't rape men. Which they do... there are men out there who have gone through the same things you have to women.

You think this argument pisses you off... how do you think a man raped by a woman would feel about this, and the climate of the world in general where a good number of people don't even think men can be raped in such cases?

A simple statment of something like "Yes, men are also raped and sexually harrased by women, however i've never been sexually assaulted by a women and therefore am not going to be edgey towards them."

Ends any conversation on the matter. Rather then "It doesn't happen." Because it does.

Mariah Carey is kind of thick. i think she is pretty.

Buffie the Body got a thick ass.

Or as I would like to call her, Buffie the Booty.

yes this thread has totally derailed.

Ok back on topic... I'll try and add something new here...

I have dated as much sizes, shapes and colours I could get my hand on. My current "companion" (I try and don't get into relationships - mind you, with mutual agreement) is a bit pudgy but she has a great smile, good sense of humour, quite intelligent and a nice ass - my four criteria. And she actually leaves me stunned in bed, which is a first for me.

My previous girl was thin. She was a ballet teacher and gymnast, for comparison. Though she was great and had a fantastic year with her it is no competition in bed, not now at least. And to be honest, I'm also after a cute 19 year old thin Spanish girl...

The way I see it, all people have something attractive, even on the outside. I recall the picture on page two I think. The red haired girl for instance has a nice smile - plus, red hair :D!
Granted, I do not enjoy morbidly obese women. I would not hit on any of the girls in the picture. I tried it once with a woman of similair size (Don't knock it till you try it) but really, the sex wasn't great. She was too busy with her body, she got tired quickly, she couldn't do a whole lot of positions... No.
That is probably my gripe then with the really big girls. Though I don't like anorexic either.

I enjoy anything, from "Normally thin" to "Curvy and round" so to speak, and it makes for a varied love life :D!

Kasz, no one said men don't get raped by women. Thats why I said I don't know what that has to do with anything. You've been writing essays on something I haven't been arguing against. I provided a quick statistic I found on google because I thought it was a bit ludicrous to be trying to say that women raping men is even remotely as common as men raping women. The only thing I've been arguing is how you all have been saying things that don't tie into the original point... or the beginning of the derailing of this thread at all. Its as if you didn't read what I wrote, or perhaps you read it and misinterpreted it or twisted it. And because of how it was like you were ignoring me completely, I was more than a bit disgusted.

I'm kind of glad this thread got derailed though, the only reason why I posted in it was because I was really disgusted with some of the things you people were saying. Theres a difference between voicing your opinion and being disrespectful.

*blinks*

This thread scares me.