Moongoddess256 said: An estimated 91% of victims of rape are female, 9% are male and 99% of offenders are male. (Bureau of Justice Statistics 1999)  http://www2.ucsc.edu/rape-prevention/statistics.html And ass grabbing is the same as fingering? Christ you are just trying to pick a fight aren't you? Go troll somewhere else.

I'm not trying to be rude, I was raised to respect the ladies....BUT..

Settle down. You take everything to an extreme. Chill. It's true, woman get raped and its not right. OBVIOUSLY.

So your saying a chick who has grabbed my junk isnt the same?(as vice versa_

My friend has gotten his ass kicked by a bouncer for grabbing some ass b4 and the chick was flirting with him. AKA was "sexual assult" And my brotha was making out with the chick 10 minutes ago! (those numbers are lies)

YEAH, not all cases are like that, but those numbers you spouted out are saturated with BULLSHIT.

 

You need to settle down with your wack attitude. You said you come on here to vent your problems ? Well atleast be real.

 

Like my man Jay Z said,

You think I'm freakin' these chicks right?
I try not to brush against they chest
You get a lawsuit for shit like that, I feel trapped

 

I'm sick of all you people you are not aware of the real world.

If a dude just grabs me and I don't like it I just take it as him being blunt and I bluntly brush him off. Fingering would sort of imply clothes off and things went a bit further than through the clothes grabbing (Do you just not know the definition of fingering or what?).

This dudes just pissed because I made an irritated comment that was meant to say with an attitude like most of you have it makes you quite unattractive on the inside (so a girl has to resort to looking at the outside). And then he blabbed on with some nonsense that hit a sensitive spot (not taking sexual assault seriously... comparing it to unwanted touch which I experience all the time and its not a problem at all) and obviously I can't punch someone over the internet, so I wrote something instead.

PS. And you guys are discussing "sexual harassment" which is in fact silly politically correct sue-happy america nonsense. Notice the term "Assault".

PPS. And to the guy above me, the statistic I gave was regarding rape. I don't see how that is in any way inaccurate and it has nothing to do with sexual harassment. WTF?

I don't think I know of anyone who has been thrown out of a club for grabbing some girls ass. Maybe it's just Northern Ireland or maybe you go to the wrong places :P A bit of fun only becomes sexual harassment when they don't find the person doing it attractive :)

I could really use a bit of sexual harassment from an attractive female right now but alas I decided to stay in until my exams are over. Big mistake.

ion-storm said: I don't think I know of anyone who has been thrown out of a club for grabbing some girls ass. Maybe it's just Northern Ireland or maybe you go to the wrong places :P A bit of fun only becomes sexual harassment when they don't find the person doing it attractive :) I could really use a bit of sexual harassment from an attractive female right now but alas I decided to stay in until my exams are over. Big mistake.

You should go out alittle more before you speak of this subject.

That's all I gotta say.

Damn I feel like a dumbass for even responding to you.

(I must be a dumbshi*t then!)

 

 

Foshoryuken said: ion-storm said: I don't think I know of anyone who has been thrown out of a club for grabbing some girls ass. Maybe it's just Northern Ireland or maybe you go to the wrong places :P A bit of fun only becomes sexual harassment when they don't find the person doing it attractive :) I could really use a bit of sexual harassment from an attractive female right now but alas I decided to stay in until my exams are over. Big mistake. You should go out alittle more before you speak of this subject. That's all I gotta say. Damn I feel like a dumbass for even responding to you. (I must be a dumbshi*t then!)

 

How often do you think I go out?

ion-storm said: I don't think I know of anyone who has been thrown out of a club for grabbing some girls ass. Maybe it's just Northern Ireland or maybe you go to the wrong places :P A bit of fun only becomes sexual harassment when they don't find the person doing it attractive :) I could really use a bit of sexual harassment from an attractive female right now but alas I decided to stay in until my exams are over. Big mistake.

I've tossed out plenty of guys that were making unwanted grabs to women that were there to have fun, or there to work when I was bouncing.   It happens, and for most guys, they really don't care much and rather enjoy the grabs compared to women who hate being treated like objects.

Perhaps it's something of a cultural difference between America and Northern Ireland :) You might get shouted at by the girl over here, but you won't get thrown out unless you do something a bit more. Probably also a bit to do with most places I go being dominated by University Students

Moongoddess getting my ass grabbed was in a club, on a train a girl tried to slide her hand down the front of my trousers. So yea you apparently think that is fine. Also if a man is raped by a woman you can guarntee he is far far less likely to report it. I mean just look in this thread one guy was having a go and saying man up. I mean if a guy grabs a girls ass she can just slap him and the bouncers will probably throw him out. Imagine if a slapped a girl for grabbing mine. I would be beaten up so badly I would probably end up in hospital.

So yes those statistics you posted are basically useless. So we know of reported cases 99% of offenders were men. Tbh I bet that more than 90% of guys wouldn't report it if a woman tried to rape them.

Oh and Kyros so you are saying because a man has to be sexually aroused it can't be rape? Well like Kasz216 said you could then argue if a woman got wet or had an orgasm during rape then it wasn't rape because she clearly wanted. It's basically complete BS, it's a natural response. Of course men can be raped. Just because they are erect doesn't mean they want it.

No I didn't: I said that the mechanics are much more complicated. How do you get aroused at first for example? I am pretty much sure that woman rapes man is an urban legend. You do not even find examples when googling it (besides the passed out blowjob thing)
I would really like to know where you come from because here in Germany girls generally do not feel men up and I do not know a woman that would be physically capable of raping me. I think you put the thread in a weird direction.

Foshoryuken said: Like my man Jay Z said, You think I'm freakin' these chicks right? I try not to brush against they chest You get a lawsuit for shit like that, I feel trapped I'm sick of all you people you are not aware of the real world.

@Zim and Foshoryuken

I'm going to come right out and say it. I think you are an idiot. And the fact that you take your idealogy on treating women from rap "artists" affirms my feelings. There is no way you and Moongoddess are talking about remotely similar things. You are talking about unwanted sexual attention or harassment while she is talking about unwanted penetration and abuse. I realize you may be trying to propogate the idea that it's a double standard for you to go to jail for raping a girl while a girl would have no criminal consequences for playing grab bag, but no rational person would see those two as being equal.  Saying to some women; "Oh you were raped? Man, that's like the the time some girl touched my crouch" makes you sound like a moron. It makes no sense. The only way you could possibly understand what a girl who was raped experiences would be if you forcefully had your sphincter ripped in two. It's people like you who makes the real world such a scary place for women, you dont understand the life long effect rape and abuse has on a person, and in you ignorance you log on to a forum and actually try to justify it and water it down to unwanted touching.

 

@That Guy.

I think the better question would be: "Could you love some on who is fat?"

My wife is not fat, but she not skinny either (she's just right), however, if she was to get some illness that have a permanent weight effect (like: thyroid cancer and or hypothyroidism) I would not love her less or be any less attracted to her.